Still on charges being droped B also had droped charges

Sophisticated Bonang Mathemba drops charges against ex boyfriend Themba Nkosi aka Euphonik what the guy did was utterly wrong and had no right to do what he did Bonang a reputation to maintain and has alot of work on her plate but I think dropping the charges was a very big mistake because now Themba thinks his won and this makes this whole situation looks likes this was just astunt she was trying to pull everyday a woman get hit by either a boyfriend /husband and they don't report the abuse the to the police this was a great platform to show that no woman should take up abuse fromno one and now she goes and drops the charges what is wrong with this picture ?